Does being raised by gay parents make a child gay?

Does being raised by gay parents make a child gay? First, how are we using the term "gay"? If you mean that the child would be gay and have a greater tolerance of others, open to new ideas and lifestyles, progressive, understanding of others, accepting of others, advocate for civil rights, supporter of marriage equality, defender of human rights, appreciation of human uniqueness, believes that everyone is unique, understands that our nation was founded on uniqueness, knows that uniqueness is the backbone of our melting pot society, fights to ensure everyone has a voice, fights for those who cannot or do not have a voice or say... if that is what you mean by "gay", then yes, a child will become gay if he or she was raised by gay parents.

However, if you are using the word "gay" negatively or using it as the child's sexual preference, then you must empty your load of bull. Having gay parents does not make a child sexually attracted to the same gender. There are millions of people living throughout the world who were raised by the "standard" family of a mother and a father; however, they turned out to be gay.

I was talking with a student, John, at Brookdale Community College, and he told me that a child raised by gay parents affects the child's personal sexual preference. Where's the fucking logic in that? So, John, you are telling me that your only desire for women is all based upon your parents? So again, John, you would be a homosexual if your mother "turns" lesbian or your father "goes" gay? Interesting. Do not make assumptions unless you have been in the situation; and in this case, raised by gay parents or known someone who has.

People think they know everything without facing it.

Sen. Sanders on Maddow, Great Stuff!

Sen. Sanders is right on the money pushing for a clear public option! I say to Sen. Menendez from NJ and Sen. Sanders from VT: continue to fight for that public option, health care reform would be nothing without! Public option is the reform. The backbone of it! Do not back down, never back down!

http://www.sanders.senate.gov/newsroom/media/view/index.cfm?id=6ba7bd8e-9ae7-4726-9a38-99a5ba9766df

Check it out!

And, just a side note about Joe Lieberman, "How is this man in the US Senate?" A true Bush follower; loves to flip-flop on every issue and even on party lines! We must strip Lieberman of his chairman seat and his Senate seat. Lies and delaying any progress, that's Connecticut's Lieberman! Connecticut, find a better Senate!

I believe... (Part II)

• that times are different; however, there is no excuse for slavery
• that racism and discrimination should be punishable by law
• that words like transgender, transsexual, bisexual, gay, lesbian and straight should not be used negatively
• that words like transgender, transsexual, bisexual, gay, lesbian and straight are positive terms
• the work place should be based upon qualification, nothing else
• wealth should not equal power; unfortunately, it does
• we should not called illegal immigrants from Mexico "illegal aliens" as if they were sub-human
• technology is killing us; however, we are too entertained to care
• it is too late to slow global warming
• planet Earth will be just fine; we are the ones screwed
• reality shows can be entertaining to watch, but not to live by
• we must preserve our historical sites
• we should support our local farmers: buy local
• our health care system, education system, food-distributing system, judicial system and our social classes are flawed
• we are just allowing the rich to get richer and the poor to bear that burden: unacceptable
• we need more transparency in our government
• we need more involvement and enthusiasm from our Nation's people
• that, in every election, cities like Newark, Asbury Park, Camden and Long Branch have the most to lose; so therefore, should vocalize the most
• our Nation should supply for those less fortunate
• that expressing my views and principles is important: my right
• everyone should voice their views and concerns
• everyone is responsible for deriving solutions to our Nation's problems
• that politics and government should be part of everyone's daily life: devoted time varies
• that politics and government should not be all of one's life: live, experience
• Health Care Reform will help all Americans now; but, more importantly in the future
• we are moving forward as a Nation: hop on

What I Would Do Differently on the Campaign Trail

There are a few things that I would do differently or better on the campaign trail to guarantee a win in November:

• Make usable, sensible campaign paraphernalia like pens, pins and bumper stickers (not combs, nail files and nasty-looking candy).
• Connect to the targeted audience by putting yourself in their shoes and realize their concerns, troubles and problems.
• While speaking to the public one-on-one (for example, canvassing), let the public speak and truly, whole-heartedly LISTEN to what they are saying! Write their quotes down; it will be useful information later.
• While canvassing, never read from the script; use it as a guideline. No one wants to be lectured on their own front porch.
• Before you go out canvassing, prepare yourself! Read and educate yourself on both sides of the issues. Do not be caught off guard; however, never bullshit an answer. Be honest if you do not know.
• Campaigns must work with other campaigns. Help each other fundraise, advertise, canvass, etc. Winning is a team effort.
• If you work on a campaign, support the candidate on his/her record and values. Do not blindly follow the blue banner. Make sure your candidate represents you.
• While putting up lawn signs, make sure you put them in the RIGHT LOCATIONS! Know where your district, town, county or state lines lie.
• Make the candidate a "household name" like Barack Obama, Derek Jeter or Donald Trump.
• During the campaign, have the candidate engage in community service and outreach.
• During the campaign, remain updated with recent news, polls, issues, updates, etc.
• On the campaign trail, use quotes by important people who believe(d) in the same values and principles as your candidate.
• Be honest, cannot stress that enough.
• Use grassroot-efforts to win elections.
• Relate candidate to well-liked political figures IF the comparison is accurate.
• Have your candidate go to fairs, rallies, school functions, community days, local events, protests of issues that he/she is campaigning for, etc.
• Have qualified people running the campaign office(s).
• Do not be over confident leading up to and on Election Day.
• The campaign does not end until the last ballot is counted. Remember that for Monmouth County Freeholder Amy Mallet's case.
• Order lawn signs and campaign materials early. So therefore: fundraise early and often!
• Emphasize the important issues at hand, not the nonsense ones!
• Make your candidate's campaign a positive one. Avoid negative campaigning as much as possible!
• Never robo-call! Everyone hates it and I do too!
• Have your candidate explain HOW he/she will achieve their campaign promises.
• Have no campaign material, literature, posters or signs in the campaign headquarters by the time the polls close! Get it to the people; just a waste sitting in a pile.
• Unite targeted groups: Unite the youth in supporting your candidate. Unite the senior citizens. Unite the unions. Unite the working class. Unite the upper middle class, middle middle class, lower middle class and the poor. Unite the minorities. Unite the majorities. Unite either the town, district, county, state or country as a whole.
• After the campaign, make sure your candidate follows his promises in office.
• After the campaign, do not be a sore loser, nor a sore winner; be a productive citizen.

Marriage Equality in NJ

We must pass marriage equality in New Jersey within the next two months! Christie won't even sniff it while he is in office starting in 2010. But, I do have a bone to pick with Governor Corzine and the Democrats of the NJ Senate and Assembly: where was the push for marriage equality during Corzine's first year as Governor? Second year...? Third? Now it is Corzine's last two months and we are in this major rush for legislation now! Shame on Corzine, shame on the Senate and Assembly! Action is need now, yes! But, we should of had marriage equality bagged in 2006 or 07.

But, what's done is done. Can our elected officials do what is right within the next two months and give all New Jersey citizens the right to live life freely? Let's do this! Get involved, even if it does not affect you personally! This issue affects the rights of our brothers, sisters, neighbors, coworkers, teachers, friends, and family members! Let's show the rest of the Nation that New Jersey believes in equal rights! Donate your time and/or your money to Garden State Equality. Go to their website to volunteer and donate: http://www.GardenStateEquality.org/

Like health care reform, this is a moral issue of granting human rights to Americans that have been too long suppressed!

I believe...

• in a woman's right to choice
• in a government by its people, but more importantly, a government for its people
• that our government has no right to issue a marriage license because it is violating President Jefferson's vision of 'separation of church and state'
• in equal rights to all no matter of sexual preference or skin color
• that we must legalize all immigrants that are living in the United States illegally and search for a new border control solution
• that all illegal immigrants are humans too
• we must help those in need
• volunteerism is the solution
• in the right to religion, but not the right to convert others
• we must watch our elected officials closely; holding them accountable for their successes and their failures
• spending on education is not and should not be considered wasteful spending
• we must help our elected officials succeed in modifying our government no matter if we supported them through their campaign or not
• the United States is a great place to live, but I cannot say its the best because I do not know for sure
• that we must stop global free trade and transfer to fair trade
• that all humans are equal, not just those living in the United States
• history tells us a lot about tomorrow
• tomorrow can be great
• that within communities through grassroot-efforts effective change can begin, but can also unfortunately die
• we must honor each other as well as each other's values
• that positive, effective change to our government can happen
• in the right to health
• that life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness relies on the right to health
• that we must help fight for each others rights
• justice leads to closure
• in community service
• in our Nation's Constitution
• in our Nation's 27 Amendments
• in our government's possibility of success
• our government has been taken over by corporate America
• our government is being run by corporate America
• we can change that
• we must change that
• we will change that
• change is hard, but possible

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